Sunday, February 19, 2012

Why a girl needs a best friend

Tring ...tring..

Coffee khana joom? (lts catch up for a cup of coffee?)

Life used to be just that simple. Your best friend used to be just one phone call away. All you needed was to buzz and then rush to the nearest coffee joint. Then whether it was a small nagging problem about a lover who hadn't replied to your last email or your extended family pestering your mom to get you married off or your dad annoying you for spending a bomb, you could vent it out on your best friend.

Now, now, I agree problems do not remain the same. The lover either disappears or becomes your spouse ;) (depending on how your love story came to an end -either way), needless to say you have been married for quite some time and your dad is happy you don't rip him off any more. But your mind  becomes adept at piling itself with woes. Now that you are not the carefree bird you were, you review things, you cling to the past, and you bother about people who you dislike. Why does one end up giving so much of mind share to people who make us unhappy! It is mostly because in the adult world, we are not given a chance to speak our blunt mind out. You smile and greet every damn person who pisses you off when you try to fall asleep in the wee hours of night. Why is there no outlet to express anger?

Why is there anger in the first place? Because things are getting piled up. You need a best friend who will give you not just her ear but a handy broom to clean yourself :)

I miss you Annie.


3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Why don't you pen down your frustrations and vent out your anger towards those you hate?
It would be a nice read too - for a change hate instead of mush, love and loneliness :)

Vidwata said...

Well, as you wouldn't really like it, but I specialize in mush and love :)

So, the kind of post that you might be looking forward to read, is something I may not be able to promise... Annieways, thanks for putting a comment :)

zany said...

Has the mood transfer gone cross border lately? Met Nidhi last week. And her Vivaan.